Many couples choose mediation as an alternative
  method of resolving their divorce, property and
  custody issues.  The mediator is a trained, 
  independent and neutral third party who can assist
  you through the mediation process.  Often, 
  mediation is a favorable option which can address
  the very stressful and often emotional issues 
  surrounding a divorce, versus litigation where
  these matters are dealt with in a public courtroom.

  Your mediation will take place in the private
  setting of your mediator's office with both the
  Husband and Wife present.  It's possible to reach a
  mediated property settlement agreement and
  custody arrangement which is in the best interests of your children in a non-adversarial environment.  You will maintain the control to end the mediation process at any time without waiving your right to litigate your case if you decide to do so.  In most cases, mediation is far less expensive than litigation and the related court appearances.

 Mediation serves as an opportunity to discuss the issues and possible solutions for your case, with the
 assistance of the mediator.  The mediator will not however make any decisions or choose sides, nor will
 the mediator provide any legal advice.  There may be times during the mediation when it may become
 necessary to consult with an attorney or other experts such as real estate or business appraisers and
 accountants.  You will have an opportunity to review any agreement reached during mediation with an
 attorney on your behalf and the mediator will recommend that you take that step.